“You’ve made your bed, now lie in it” has got to be one of my favorite expressions of all time.
As a founding (and former) member of the “It Ain’t Nothin’ To Cut That B* Off” Defense Mechanism and Protection Plan, those became some of my last fighting words as relationships closed, whether audibly spoken or not. I had to leave that anthem, which was so thoughtfully written by the philosopher K Camp, behind when I chose to be delivered from the spirit of pettiness.
In many ways, I’ve been challenged to rethink the metaphor of the bed too.
Read MoreIn the words of the great 21st-century poet, Aubrey Graham, I feel good, sometimes I don’t.
Yes, the woman calling you into Unshakeable Joy just admitted that no, not all of life is peaches and berries. Unshakeable joy doesn’t mean you don’t encounter and experience rejection, hurt, shame, or guilt.
I get it. Sometimes the spiral down feels as good as the flight.
Let’s chat about how we can modify the way we process our feelings — graduating from solely Sza to primarily Psalms.
Read MoreI’m learning the power of “No.” Maybe you should too.
If you're anything like me—in your twenties and in constant pursuit of a purpose driven life, then it's probably in your best interest to be a tad selfish, and I'm going to defend your selfishness.
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